Can you spell "desperate"?

Sure you can.

I guess old "tons of fun" couldn't convince her former "virtual boyfriend" she had a whole lot of loving along with a whole lot of everything else.

Here's a tip from someone who successfully met and married his online girlfriend (aka the War Department); Be honest, keep it light and don't start planning the nuptials till one of you has moved across country to be with the other. That last is a sure sign someone is committed (or needs to be).

And FWIW, we're married nine years and counting. With a house, three children and two cats I think our lives are irrevocably joined together.

At least until she figures how to hide any bullet wounds on the body.